11 Best Anal Toys for Beginners: Gentle Start, Maximum Pleasure – For Our Readers in Australia

11 Best Anal Toys for Beginners: Gentle Start, Maximum Pleasure

Embarking on the journey of anal exploration can be incredibly rewarding, unlocking new sensations and dimensions of pleasure. However, navigating the world of anal toys for the first time can feel a bit daunting. That's why we've curated this comprehensive guide featuring the 20 best anal toys specifically designed for beginners. These toys prioritize comfort, ease of use, and gentle introduction to anal sensations, ensuring a positive and exciting first experience. From smooth, tapered plugs to stimulating bead sets, we'll guide you through the options, highlighting their unique features and benefits to help you find the perfect starting point for your anal adventures.

Top 11 Beginner-Friendly Anal Toys: Your Gateway to New Sensations

Here's a detailed look at 11 of the best anal toys for beginners, complete with their pros and cons to help you make an informed decision:

Beginner's Anal Adventure Collection: 3-Piece Pleasure Pack

Introducing the Beginner's Anal Adventure Collection, a perfect 3-piece pleasure pack designed for those new to anal play. This thoughtfully curated kit features a small, tapered butt plug for comfortable all-day wear, a prostate pleaser with a ribbed shaft and textured nubs for targeted stimulation, and anal beads with five graduated spheres for thrilling internal sensations. Crafted from body-safe Elite Silicone™, this collection offers a variety of options for beginners to explore and discover their preferences.

Anal Fantasy Collection Anal Party Pack - Article product
Anal Fantasy Collection Anal Party Pack
Introduction Anal Fantasy Collection Anal Party Pack is a beginner-friendly trio of anal toys designed for first-time explorers seeking a comfortable, confident introduction to anal play. Made from body-safe Elite Silicone, this 3-piece sampler delivers thoughtful design and satisfying sensations for curious adults. Features Three-piece starter set including a tapered Starter Plug,...
$72.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Variety of shapes and sizes for exploration May be too much variety for some beginners
Made from body-safe Elite Silicone
Tapered designs for easy insertion
Flanged bases for safe and comfortable use
Includes a butt plug, prostate pleaser, and anal beads

Boundless 4.5" Slim Probe - Midnight Black

Experience deep internal stimulation with the Boundless 4.5" Slim Probe in Midnight Black. This expertly designed probe features a perfectly angled, flexible shaft for pinpointed pleasure and a strong suction cup base for hands-free exploration. 1 Crafted from hypoallergenic, premium silicone that is body-safe, unscented, and phthalate-free, this slim probe allows you to indulge in intense sensations, whether mounted on a flat surface or integrated with a harness.

Boundless 4.5
Boundless 4.5" Slim- Black
The Boundless™ 4.5” Slim Probe is sure to thrust you into the orgasmic world of deep internal stimulation. The perfectly angled shaft, flexible shaft and strong suction cup base let you deliver pinpointed stimulation with every thrust. The accentuated probe and rigid shaft are created to perfectly tease intimate curves and indulge internal sweet spots....
$32.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Slim profile for comfortable insertion May be too long for some absolute beginners
Strong suction cup for hands-free play
Body-safe, unscented silicone
Flexible design for targeted stimulation

Artisan 6.5" Textured Borosilicate Glass Dildo

Seeking a thrill? The Artisan 6.5" Textured Borosilicate Glass Dildo from gläs offers an exquisite and sensual experience. This stunning clear and blue glass dildo is both aesthetically pleasing and designed for pleasure, featuring a pronounced head for enhanced stimulation and a textured surface for exquisite sensations. Crafted from body-safe borosilicate glass, it can retain temperature for added excitement, is easy to clean, and compatible with all lubricants, making it perfect for beginners and experienced users alike.

Glas 6.5
Glas 6.5" Tip Textured Glass Dildo
Searching for a thrill? The Full Tip Textured Glass Dildo from gläs is an artisan created adult toy that offers a complete, sensual experience. Carefully crafted in dazzling clear and blue glass, this dildo is an impressive addition to any expert's collection, as well as a unique way for beginners to start their sexual exploration....
$37.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Beautiful clear and blue glass design Glass requires careful handling
Textured surface for enhanced stimulation May be too long for initial anal exploration
Can retain temperature for varied sensations
Compatible with all types of lubricants
Easy to clean

SONO Pleasure Set: 4-Piece Flexible Butt Plug Collection – Black

Unlock new sensations with the SONO Pleasure Set, a 4-piece collection of flexible black butt plugs perfect for beginners to experienced users. 1 This set offers a variety of unique shapes and graduated sizes for comfortable and exciting anal exploration. 1 Crafted from body-safe, phthalate-free, and odorless TPE rubber, these waterproof plugs feature ergonomic bases for easy removal, making them ideal for solo play or enhancing intimacy with a partner.

Shots Sono No. 8 Butt Plug - Black Set of 4 - Article product
Shots Sono No. 8 Butt Plug - Black Set of 4
For all you backdoor lovers or those who want to try some anal fun, SONO has developed a fantastic 4-piece butt plug set! Made from flexible, highly durable and odourless TPE rubber, these plugs will give you hours and hours of amorous anal adventures! All plugs are absolutely phthalate-free. Each toy comes in a distinct...
$39.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Four different sizes for gradual training May be overwhelming for some absolute beginners
Flexible and durable TPE rubber
Phthalate-free and waterproof
Ergonomic base for easy removal

Silky Comfort Dilator Set - Lavender Bliss

Experience gentle comfort and care with the Silky Comfort Dilator Set - Lavender Bliss, a 4-piece set designed for your intimate wellness journey. 1 Crafted from ultrasilk smooth Puria Platinum-Cured Silicone, these dilators feature rounded tips to prevent irritation and come in progressive sizes to suit your comfort level. 1 The charming heart-shaped bases add a delightful touch to this fragrance-free, phthalate-free, paraffin-free, and latex-free set, perfect for a soothing and comfortable experience when paired with water-based lubricant.

Blush Wellness Dilator Kit - Purple - Article product
Blush Wellness Dilator Kit - Purple
The Wellness Silicone Dilator Set is carefully crafted for your comfort. Each vaginal dilator in this 4-piece kit features silky smooth, soft silicone and a rounded tip to avoid cervical irritation. With 4 differently sized dilators, starting at only 0.5 inches width, the Wellness Set lets you start small and move upward in size whenever...
$90.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Ultrasilk smooth silicone Primarily designed for comfort and gentle stretchin
Rounded tips to prevent irritation May not provide intense pleasure for some
Progressive sizes for gradual introduction
Cute heart-shaped bases
Body-safe and fragrance-free

Beginner's Black Anal Easy Plug - Blush Anal Adventures

Enhance your intimate moments with the Beginner's Black Anal Easy Plug from Blush Anal Adventures, perfectly crafted for those new to anal play. This plug features a small, tapered tip that gently expands for comfortable stretching, along with a secure anchor base and StayPut technology for worry-free pleasure during solo or partnered use. Made from easy-to-clean, non-porous PVC that is free from fragrances, phthalates, paraffins, and latex, it offers a gentle and satisfying introduction to anal exploration.

Blush Anal Adventures Easy Plug - Black - Article product
Blush Anal Adventures Easy Plug - Black
For anyone looking to explore new anal sensations alone or with a partner! Anal Adventures provides many anatomically targeted options to choose from. The Easy Plug is a perfect introduction to anal play. Its small tip expands into a comfortable tapered shape, for simple stretching. It has a secure anchor base that keeps the plug...
$14.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Gentle tapered design for easy stretching Small size may not satisfy everyone
Secure anchor base with StayPut technology PVC material may not be preferred by all
Phthalate, fragrance, and latex-free
Easy to clean non-porous PVC


Small Black Silicone Anal Plug - Anal Fantasy Collection

Explore new sensations with the Small Black Silicone Anal Plug from the Anal Fantasy Collection. Designed for beginners and experienced users, this plug features a tapered tip for smooth insertion, a bulbous shape for enhanced pleasure, and a narrow neck for a secure, comfortable fit. Crafted from ultra-hygienic, phthalate-free Elite Silicone, its ergonomic base prevents slipping, making it perfect for extended solo or partnered enjoyment.

Anal Fantasy Collection Small Silicone Plug - Black - Article product
Anal Fantasy Collection Small Silicone Plug - Black
Introduction The Anal Fantasy Collection Small Silicone Plug is a compact, comfortable option for anal play that combines smooth sensation with practical wear. Crafted in Elite Silicone, it offers a hygienic, all‑day wear experience in a sleek black finish. Features Size: 1.5" wide with an insertable length of 3.5" (approx.). Material:...
$41.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Tapered tip for smooth and easy entry Small size may not satisfy everyone
Bulbous shape for enhanced sensation
Narrow neck for secure muscle grip
Ergonomic base to prevent slipping
Ultra-hygienic, phthalate-free silicone

Beginner's Ass-Gasm Cockring & Plug – Black

Unlock new sensations with the Beginner's Ass-Gasm Cockring & Plug in Black, a beginner-friendly version of a best-selling dual-purpose toy. Crafted from silky-smooth, phthalate-free, and hypoallergenic Elite Silicone, it functions as a performance-enhancing cockring while providing incredible prostate stimulation. Its strategically designed base ensures comfortable insertion, allowing beginners to confidently explore intense pleasure and prolonged ejaculation.

Anal Fantasy Ass-Gasm Cockring Beginners Plug - Black - Article product
Anal Fantasy Ass-Gasm Cockring Beginners Plug - Black
Discover the Anal Fantasy Ass-Gasm Cockring Beginners Plug — a silicone wearable that combines a flexible cockring with an anal plug, designed for beginners who want to extend endurance and enjoy enhanced prostate stimulation. Features Material: Elite Silicone — silky-smooth, body-safe, and ultra-stretchy. Color: Black. Design: Dual-function plug and cockring...
$43.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Dual function: cockring and prostate stimulator May be more advanced than a simple beginner plug
Smaller, beginner-friendly version available
Silky-smooth, phthalate-free Elite Silicone
Strategically designed base for comfortable insertion

Beginner's Silicone Anal Pleasure Set

Explore new realms of pleasure with the Beginner's Silicone Anal Pleasure Set, an expertly designed starter kit featuring three graduated tapered plugs for a smooth introduction to anal sensations. Made from seamless, body-safe Satin Finish silicone that is phthalate-free and unscented, each plug has a convenient flanged base for enhanced stimulation and easy removal, making this flexible and comfortable set ideal for both beginners and those looking to improve their anal play.

Silicone Anal Starter Kit - Article product
Silicone Anal Starter Kit
Ease yourself into thrilling anal sensation with the Silicone Anal Starter Kit. This naughty kit includes a set of 3 graduated tapered anal plugs meant to let you safely and comfortably increase passionate anal stimulation. To enjoy everything the exhilarating world of anal play has to offer, training is in order to ensure total safety...
$52.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Three graduated tapered plugs for safe exploration Three pieces may be more than some beginners want
Seamless, body-safe Satin Finish silicone
Phthalate-free and unscented
Flanged base for enhanced stimulation and easy removal
Flexible and comfortable to use

Petite Pleasure: 4" Mini Realistic Cock - Blush Pink

Experience ultimate satisfaction with the Petite Pleasure: 4" Mini Realistic Cock in Blush Pink, a perfectly sized, hand-sculpted toy for delightful and authentic pleasure. Engineered with a curved shaft and pronounced corona for intense G-spot or prostate stimulation, this versatile toy is ideal for solo play, partnered exploration, or pegging. Featuring a strong suction cup base for hands-free enjoyment and harness compatibility, it's crafted from body-safe, tested TPE free of fragrances, phthalates, paraffins, and latex.

Blush Naturally Yours 4 Inch Mini Cock Pink Real Feel Suction Base - Article product
Blush Naturally Yours 4 Inch Mini Cock Pink Real Feel Suction Base
Blush Naturally Yours 4 Inch Mini Cock Pink Real Feel Suction Base Experience compact, lifelike pleasure with the Naturally Yours Mini Cock. Hand sculpted to look and feel like the real thing, this 4-inch toy delivers authentic texture in a petite, beginner-friendly size for solo or partner play. Realistic Design for Stimulation The curved...
$23.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Manageable 4-inch size, ideal for beginners Realistic shape may not appeal to all beginners
Strong suction cup for hands-free play
Harness compatible for versatile use
Body-safe, phthalate-free TPE
Tested for safety

The Ultimate Beginner's Anal Dildo with Adjustable Harness – Black

Embark on the exciting world of anal play with The Ultimate Beginner's Anal Dildo with Adjustable Harness in Black. Specifically designed for newcomers, this dildo features a slim profile and clever curve for comfortable and thrilling sensations. The included plush-lined harness with adjustable four-way nylon straps ensures a secure and comfortable fit for all, making this phthalate-free and unisex option the perfect first step towards unforgettable pleasure.

Anal Fantasy Collection The Pegger - Black - Article product
Anal Fantasy Collection The Pegger - Black
When you're looking for an affordable strap-on harness that can do it all, the Fetish Fantasy Series harnesses are just what you need to get the job done. We've reimagined our best-selling harness designs, improving them with even better shapes and materials to offer the best range of harnesses for beginners and strap-on aficionados alike....
$66.00
Add to cart

Pros  Cons
Slim profile and curved design for easy insertion Harness may require adjustment for optimal fit
Adjustable harness for secure and comfortable fit Dildo material not explicitly stated in provided text
Phthalate-free and unisex

How to Use and Care for Your Beginner Anal Toys

Once you've chosen your first anal toy, understanding how to use and care for it properly is crucial for a safe and enjoyable experience.

How to Use:

  1. Preparation is Key: Always start with a clean body and a relaxed mindset. Ensure you have a high-quality, water-based lubricant readily available. Silicone-based lubricants are generally safe for silicone toys, but always double-check the manufacturer's recommendations. Avoid silicone-based lubricants with silicone toys as they can degrade the material over time.
  2. Lubricate Generously: Apply a generous amount of lubricant to both the toy and the anal area. This is essential for comfortable insertion and prevents friction. Don't be shy – more is always better!
  3. Start Slowly and Gently: If you're using a butt plug or dildo, begin by inserting the tip slowly and gently. Relax your anal muscles; tension can make insertion difficult and uncomfortable. Take deep breaths to help relax.
  4. Listen to Your Body: Pay attention to any sensations you feel. Discomfort or pain is a sign to stop. Anal play should be pleasurable, not painful.
  5. Experiment Gradually: If you're using a set of anal beads or graduated plugs, introduce them one at a time, getting comfortable with each size before moving on.
  6. Explore Different Movements: Once inserted comfortably, experiment with gentle movements – rocking, thrusting (if using a dildo), or simply enjoying the sensation of fullness.
  7. Communicate (if with a partner): Open communication is vital for enjoyable partner play. Discuss boundaries, comfort levels, and desired sensations.

How to Care:

  1. Clean After Each Use: Immediately after each use, clean your anal toy thoroughly with warm water and mild, fragrance-free soap. Ensure all lubricant is removed.
  2. Use Toy Cleaner: For optimal hygiene, consider using a dedicated toy cleaner. These are specifically formulated to kill bacteria and are safe for your toy's material.
  3. Rinse Thoroughly: After washing with soap or toy cleaner, rinse the toy thoroughly under running water to remove any residue.
  4. Dry Completely: Pat the toy dry with a clean, lint-free cloth or allow it to air dry completely before storing.
  5. Store Properly: Store your anal toys separately in a clean, dry place, away from other materials (especially those made of different types of silicone or TPE) that could potentially degrade them. Consider using a storage bag or case.
  6. Inspect Regularly: Check your toys regularly for any signs of damage, such as tears or cracks. Discontinue use if you notice any damage.

5 Reasons to Choose The Cold Lady for Your Anal Toy Needs

At The Cold Lady, we're passionate about providing a safe, inclusive, and empowering shopping experience for everyone exploring their sensuality. Here are five compelling reasons why you should choose us for your anal toy needs:

  1. Curated Selection of High-Quality, Body-Safe Materials: We meticulously select our anal toys, prioritizing those made from premium, body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, and phthalate-free TPE. Your health and safety are our top priorities.
  2. Discreet and Secure Shopping Experience: We understand the importance of privacy. All orders are shipped in discreet packaging with no external markings indicating the contents. 1 Our secure online platform ensures your personal and payment information is protected.  
  3. Expert Guidance and Support: Our knowledgeable team is here to answer your questions and provide guidance. Whether you're a beginner or an experienced explorer, we're happy to offer personalized recommendations and support your journey of self-discovery.
  4. Commitment to Inclusivity and Education: We believe that pleasure is for everyone. Our blog and resources are designed to educate and empower individuals of all genders and orientations to explore their sexuality with confidence and without judgment.
  5. Unwavering Focus on Customer Satisfaction: We are dedicated to providing exceptional customer service. If you have any concerns or issues with your order, our friendly support team is here to help resolve them promptly and efficiently.

Embrace the Journey of Anal Discovery

Exploring anal pleasure can be an exciting and fulfilling part of your sexual journey. With the right beginner-friendly toys and a focus on comfort and safety, you can unlock a world of new sensations. Remember to start slowly, use plenty of lubrication, and always listen to your body. At The Cold Lady, we're here to support you every step of the way with our carefully curated selection of high-quality toys and our commitment to providing a safe and empowering shopping experience. So, take the plunge, explore your desires, and discover the incredible pleasure that awaits!

FAQ

When approached correctly and with the right tools and preparation, anal play should not be painful. The anus is a sphincter muscle that needs to relax to accommodate penetration. Rushing, using toys that are too large too quickly, or insufficient lubrication are the primary causes of discomfort or pain. Starting with small, well-lubricated toys designed for beginners is crucial. Taking your time, focusing on relaxation techniques like deep breathing, and communicating openly with a partner are essential for a pleasurable experience. If you experience sharp or persistent pain, stop immediately.

Are there any risks involved? Anal play is generally safe when practiced with care and attention to hygiene. The primary risks involve injury to the anal tissues due to forceful or improper insertion, and the potential spread of bacteria. Using plenty of water-based lubricant is vital to minimize friction and prevent tearing. It's also crucial to clean your toys thoroughly with warm water and soap or a dedicated toy cleaner after each use to prevent bacterial growth. Avoid sharing anal toys without proper sterilization. If you have any pre-existing anal conditions, it's always best to consult with a healthcare professional before engaging in anal play.

Water-based lubricants are the best and safest option for anal play. They are compatible with all types of toy materials, easy to clean up, and less likely to irritate. Avoid silicone-based lubricants with silicone toys, as they can degrade the material over time. Oil-based lubricants, while sometimes used for other types of play, are not recommended for anal play with toys as they can be difficult to clean and may not be compatible with all toy materials. Always ensure you are using a high-quality lubricant specifically designed for intimate use, and don't hesitate to reapply generously as needed.

Proper cleaning of anal toys is essential for hygiene and to prolong the lifespan of your toys. Immediately after each use, rinse the toy under warm running water to remove any lubricant and bodily fluids. Then, wash it thoroughly with mild, fragrance-free soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Ensure you clean all crevices and textured surfaces. After washing, rinse the toy again under clean water to remove any soap residue. Finally, pat the toy dry with a clean, lint-free cloth or allow it to air dry completely before storing it in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight and other materials that might damage it.

Butt plugs are anal toys designed to be inserted into the anus for pleasure and/or to get accustomed to anal penetration. They come in various shapes, sizes, and materials. Beginner butt plugs are typically smaller with a tapered tip for easy insertion and a flared or T-shaped base to prevent them from being inserted too far and for easy removal. Once inserted, they can provide a feeling of fullness and pressure, which many find pleasurable. Some butt plugs are designed to be worn for extended periods, while others are used for shorter play sessions. Movement can enhance the sensations experienced with a butt plug.

Anal beads are a series of connected spheres designed for anal insertion. They offer a unique sensation as each bead enters and exits the anus. Beginner anal beads typically feature smaller, graduated sizes to ease introduction. They can be inserted slowly, one bead at a time, or the entire strand can be inserted. The act of contracting and relaxing the anal muscles around the beads can create intense pleasure. Anal beads can also be slowly pulled out, one bead at a time, for a teasing and stimulating sensation. They are excellent for exploring internal sensations and muscle control.

For beginners, it's always best to start small. Look for toys with a narrow diameter (around 0.5 to 1 inch) and a shorter insertable length (around 2 to 4 inches). Tapered tips are also highly recommended as they facilitate easier and more comfortable insertion. Beginner sets that include multiple graduated sizes can be a great way to experiment and gradually increase size as you become more comfortable. Don't feel pressured to start with larger toys; the focus should be on getting accustomed to the sensation and ensuring a positive first experience.

Anal toys and anal play are not just for men! Women have a rich network of nerve endings in and around the anus, and many find anal stimulation to be incredibly pleasurable. Additionally, some anal toys are designed to stimulate the perineum and the G-spot simultaneously, offering unique sensations for individuals with vaginas. Just like with any form of sexual exploration, it's about individual preferences and what feels good to each person, regardless of their gender. Anal toys can be a fantastic way for women to explore new erogenous zones and enhance their sexual pleasure, both solo and with a partner.