It is important to have sufficient lubrication when having any kind of sex. During a traditional vaginal sex, a woman usually produces enough of her own fluid thus making the penetration easy and pleasant. At times, however, she is not able to secrete enough and, when this is the case, using lubricants will help. A little dryness in her vagine does not necessarily mean she’s not aroused. This may be a physiological peculiarity, or depend on a number of external factors.
When we speak of anal penetration, an artificial lubricant is a must.
Nature did not reserve any lubricant for the anus. Using a lubricant makes anal sex easy, painless, and pleasant. If there is not enough lube, sex not only can hurt, but also traumatize the anus. You may feel anal scratches and fissures hours after you had sex.
We are offering a wide range of gels, greases, and oils for easy anal and vaginal penetration.
Using desensitizing anal gels
Whatever type of lube you choose to use, keep in mind it is best to grind it on your fingertips first and then apply it to the desired areas, whether it is your vagina, anus, penis, sex toy, condom, or anything else.
Condoms are easily lubed, however, during an intensive and/or long term sex, the lube may dry out making your condom easily prone to damage. You should keep in mind that a condom is only effective when used in conjunction with some lube, whether natural, or artificial. Make sure it always stays lubed during sex to avoid unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.
Quantities of desensitizing gel you may require
There is no such thing as a rule of thumb when it concerns how much gel you need to use during sex. This depends on many things, such as a woman’s natural secretion, whether you use a condom or not, or on the kind of sexual activity (foreplay, massage, anal or vaginal sex), as well as on the specific product you choose.
Start with two or three drops and see what happens: if you feel happy about the quantity you are using, then stay on it, if not - it seems prudent to add some more. However you always need to remember that the lube will eventually end leaving your intimate areas dry, so you may need to add some more gel at some point.
Precautions when using Desensitizing creams
When using a lubricant, keep in mind the general rules applicable to any pharmaceutical or cosmetics products.
- You may be allergic, so you need to test the gel for any allergic reaction. If you have never used a similar product, put it on your hand and see if your skin reacts to it in any way. If you observe no change for five minutes, go ahead and use it. If your skin becomes red, it is wise to put it away.
- Make sure your gel is compatible with your toy. A silicone lubricant may damage your silicone sex toy. To stay safe, it is better to pick a water-based gel. These have less chance to damage your toy.
- Make sure the gel is compatible with condoms. Remember, that vaseline, as well as some other oils (such as hazel-nut oil) are incompatible since they make condoms porous and decrease the level of protection. Such creams also change the pH level of your intimate parts, which may help an infection get within your body.
- Remember that the lube does not have anything to do with contraception. A majority of lubricants do not contain spermicide, therefore they do not remove the risk of accidental pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases.
Using Desensitizing Anal Lubes is important in anal play
Anal sex may be painful and discomforting especially if you are new to it. There are special painkiller lubricants which contain benzocaine. A slight tingling sensation will take away the pain, yet you will retain sensitivity to anal stimulation.
A correctly chosen lubricant will not only make anal penetration easy and pleasant, it will also ensure you feel good when engaged in sexual play.
A silky smooth liquid will not only contribute to comfort, but will also add to the aesthetics of the process.
Anal lubes based on water and oil will be great for both men and women. Whether they smell of fruit or do not smell at all, whether contained in easy to use vials or in a gift box - you can pick a lubricant for any occasion and preference.
Take care of yourself and your partner in advance, for an idea to introduce some diversity into your sex may come to mind at any time. Keep your vial at hand, whether on your bedside table or in your purse, and you will be able to implement your fantasy whenever you wish.
When it comes to pleasure and making your desires real, make yourself comfortable! Anal sex may be a great and captivating experience if you use the right and responsible approach.
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