Vaginal dryness is a condition that affects many women and can cause significant discomfort during intimate moments. Whether it is due to hormonal changes, medications, or stress, finding the best lubricant for vaginal dryness is essential for improving comfort and enhancing intimacy. In this guide, we’ll explore the causes of vaginal dryness, how to select the best lubricant and review some of the top products available.
Understanding Vaginal Dryness
Vaginal dryness is a condition that occurs when there is insufficient natural lubrication in the vaginal area. It can cause irritation, discomfort, and pain during sexual activity. Understanding the reasons behind vaginal dryness is the first step in selecting the right product to alleviate it.
Causes of Vaginal Dryness
Several factors can contribute to vaginal dryness. Below are some of the most common causes:
Hormonal Changes. Hormonal fluctuations are one of the leading causes of vaginal dryness. A decrease in estrogen levels, often due to menopause, pregnancy, or breastfeeding, can significantly reduce the natural moisture in the vaginal area. This can result in discomfort, especially during sexual activity. Hormonal changes can also affect the elasticity and health of the vaginal tissues, leading to irritation and dryness.
Medications. Certain medications, particularly antihistamines, antidepressants, and birth control pills, can contribute to vaginal dryness. Medicines that affect hormone levels or dehydration can lead to reduced lubrication. If you are on long-term medication, it is essential to consult your healthcare provider about the potential side effects and possible alternatives that do not cause vaginal dryness.
Stress and Anxiety. Emotional factors like stress, anxiety, or depression can impact your body's natural lubrication process. When under stress, the body produces higher levels of cortisol, which can interfere with the production of estrogen and decrease vaginal moisture. Additionally, stress can lead to tension and discomfort in the pelvic area, further exacerbating vaginal dryness.
Aging. As women age, particularly after menopause, the body produces less estrogen. This reduction in estrogen can lead to a thinning of the vaginal walls and a decrease in natural lubrication. It’s a common issue many women face as they enter their 40s and 50s. The decline in estrogen can also result in a decrease in blood flow to the vaginal area, making it more prone to dryness and irritation.
Infections. Vaginal dryness can sometimes be a result of infections such as yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, or other vaginal infections. These infections can lead to inflammation and irritation of the vaginal lining, which disrupts the natural lubrication process. It’s essential to address any infections promptly to prevent further dryness or discomfort.
Intimate Products. Using harsh soaps, douches, or other intimate hygiene products can lead to vaginal dryness. These products often contain fragrances or chemicals that strip the natural oils and moisture from the vaginal area. To maintain a healthy balance, it’s recommended to use gentle, fragrance-free products for intimate hygiene.
When it comes to choosing the best lubricant for vaginal dryness, the type of lubricant you use can make a big difference in your comfort and overall experience. Here are some of the top-rated lubricants that are specifically designed to alleviate vaginal dryness.
Water-Based Lubricants: Best for Vaginal Dryness
Water-based lubricants are often recommended for women experiencing vaginal dryness, as they are gentle, easy to wash off, and safe to use with condoms. They provide instant moisture and are usually the most comfortable for sensitive skin. Let’s explore some of the best water-based lubricants available.
Silicone-Based Lubricants: For Longer-Lasting Comfort
Silicone-based lubricants are known for their ultra-slick and long-lasting effects. Unlike water-based lubricants, silicone lubricants don’t dry out as quickly, making them an excellent choice for prolonged use during sex or other intimate activities.
Cream and Gel-Based Lubricants: For a Richer, Softer Texture
Cream and gel-based lubricants are thicker and more moisturizing than water-based ones. They offer a luxurious, velvety texture that can provide more comfort and long-lasting effects. These lubricants are ideal for those seeking added hydration and a softer feel.
Arousal-Enhancing Lubricants: For Increased Sensation
If you experience vaginal dryness in addition to a lack of sensation, arousal-enhancing lubricants may be the solution. These lubricants often contain ingredients like L-arginine, which increases blood flow to the vaginal area and intensifies sensation, leading to heightened pleasure.
Sliquid Naturals Sizzle Water Based Lubricant 2 Oz Menthol Warming Cooling Looking to bring some zing into the bedroom? Sliquid Naturals Sizzle is a water-based personal lubricant designed for those seeking a little extra sensation. Made with food-grade menthol, it delivers a dual warming and cooling effect while staying glycerine- and paraben-free for female-friendly...
$12.25
Want to spice things up? Sliquid Naturals Sizzle is a fun, water-based lube designed to bring a little thrill to your intimate moments. Its secret is food-grade menthol, which creates an exciting, warming and cooling sensation that shifts with friction, taking your pleasure to the next level! This formula is gentle on sensitive areas, as it’s free from glycerin and parabens, ensuring a comfortable and naturally smooth experience. Please note that the natural ingredients may cause a slight variation in colour or texture, which is entirely normal.
Exciting dual sensation (warming and cooling)
Natural plant cellulose may cause slight color/texture variations
Water-based for easy cleanup and toy compatibility
Glycerine- and paraben-free for comfort
Made with food-grade menthol
2. JO H2O Cherry Lubricant Water-Based Personal Lubricant
JO H2O Cherry Lubricant — Water-Based Personal Lubricant 1 Oz JO H2O Cherry Lubricant is part of the JO H2O Classic Flavors—the original water-based flavored lubricants from the JO brand. This cherry-flavored formula delivers a smooth, light glide with easy cleanup, making it ideal for intimate moments and everyday use. Cherry flavored...
$11.71
If you like a dash of flavour with your fun, meet JO H2O Cherry! This is one of the original, beloved flavoured lubricants from the JO brand, offering a smooth, light, and delicious cherry-flavoured glide. It's water-based, so clean-up is super easy, making it perfect for both spontaneous moments and everyday use. The formula uses high-quality, plant-based glycerin for that silky-smooth feel you’re looking for.
Delicious cherry flavor enhances intimacy
Not compatible with polyurethane condoms
Water-based for easy cleanup
Contains glycerin (might not be ideal for some with yeast sensitivities)
Smooth, light glide
Uses high-grade plant-based glycerin
3. Climaxa Stimulating Gel For Female Pleasure Amplification
Climaxa Stimulating Gel For Female Pleasure Amplification (Half Ounce Pump) Climaxa™ Female Pleasure Amplification Gel enhances orgasms and increases pleasure for maximum sensation during intimate activity. This advanced formula is designed to dramatically boost female stimulation, helping you reach higher levels of arousal and satisfaction with ease. Key Benefits Dramatically increases female stimulation...
$25.48
Climaxa is your little secret weapon for amping up pleasure! This advanced gel is specifically designed to dramatically boost female stimulation, helping you achieve more intense orgasms and satisfaction. Since it comes in a compact pump bottle, a tiny teardrop amount massaged onto the clitoris is all you need to start feeling the difference. Start small and enjoy the ride!
Dramatically increases female stimulation
Designed as a stimulator, not primarily a vaginal lubricant
Enhances orgasms and overall pleasure
Requires precise application (small amount on the clitoris)
Compact pump bottle for convenient use
4. Wicked Sensual Care Jelle Plus Water-Based Anal Lubricant With Relaxants
Wicked Sensual Care Jelle Plus Water Based Anal Lubricant With Relaxants - 4 Oz Meet Jelle Plus, a smarter alternative to numbing agents for anal play. Lube is essential for anal activities since our bodies don’t self-lubricate, and Wicked Sensual Care designed Jelle Plus with natural relaxants and beneficial ingredients to offer a safer...
$19.33
When it comes to anal play, proper lube is a must, and Jelle Plus is a clever choice! Unlike numbing agents, this water-based formula is blended with natural relaxants to help ease tension and promote comfort without dulling sensation. It offers a silky glide and easy cleanup, ensuring a safer and much more enjoyable experience. It’s a great way to explore with confidence while staying attuned to your body's signals.
Contains natural relaxants for comfortable anal play
Primarily marketed as an anal lubricant
Safer alternative to numbing agents
Water-based for a smooth glide and easy cleanup
Enhances sensations without compromising safety
5. Wicked Sensual Care Creme Stroking And Massage Cream Coconut Almond Oil
Wicked Sensual Care Creme Stroking And Massage Cream Coconut Almond Oil 4 Oz Pique your sensations and intensify your pleasure with Wicked Creme Stroking and Massage Creme. This unique, coconut- and sweet almond oil-based intimate cream is perfect for intimate moments solo or with a partner. As the warmth of your body meets the...
$18.34
Indulge your senses with Wicked Creme, a unique intimate cream that doubles as a luxurious massage experience. Based on nourishing coconut and sweet almond oil, this fortified, Vitamin E-enriched blend melts into a non-greasy, silky liquid upon contact with body heat. It provides a smooth, wonderful glide for intimate stroking or massage, conditioning your skin while intensifying every touch. Plus, cleanup is simple with mild soap and water!
Luxurious glide with a non-greasy finish
Oil-based formula may not be compatible with all condoms and toys
Nourishes skin with Coconut Oil, Sweet Almond Oil, and Vitamin E
Jo Fragrance Free Masturbation Cream 4 Oz With Coconut Oil And Vitamin E Jo Fragrance Free Masturbation Cream is a thick, pillowy cream crafted with natural Coconut Oil and Vitamin E in a 4 oz bottle. Fragrance-free for sensitive skin, this formula delivers a smooth, nourishing experience that hydrates and protects your skin. The...
$20.96
This isn't your average lube—Jo Fragrance Free Masturbation Cream is a thick, luxurious cream designed for a truly pampering experience. Crafted with natural Coconut Oil and Vitamin E, it's fragrance-free, making it perfect for sensitive skin. The cream is drip-free, starting thick and melting into a slick, silky liquid, giving you a controlled, mess-free, and incredibly smooth glide that hydrates and protects your skin.
Thick, drip-free cream that melts into a slick liquid
Not formulated for internal use (Not a vaginal lubricant)
New from Kama Sutra: LOVE OIL Coconut Oil-based lube and body glide. Made from 100% natural and organic ingredients, LOVE OIL is designed to keep sex slippery and intimate parts moisturized. This luxurious oil enhances intimacy while being gentle on the skin and the environment- it's like skincare for your V ! Apply 1-2 pumps of product with...
$27.93
Say hello to LOVE OIL, Kama Sutra's luxurious new offering! This is a 100% natural and organic coconut oil-based lube and body glide. It's formulated to keep things delightfully slippery while also moisturising your intimate skin, acting like premium skincare for your vulva. Just 1-2 pumps massaged onto your intimate areas daily or anytime you need relief from dryness or discomfort will do the trick!
Made from 100% natural and organic ingredients
Oil-based formula may not be compatible with latex condoms or silicone toys
Deeply moisturizes intimate skin (great for daily use)
About Heaven... This incredibly warm and nutty smelling massage oil is our most decadent scent yet! Our massage oil’s number one ingredient is almond oil, which is the most nourishing oil for the skin and gives the very best glide. Creates a sensual setting. Use on the body everyday after bath or shower for silky...
$26.24
Heaven by Intimate Earth is your ticket to a sensual setting. This decadent massage oil is made with almond oil as its number one ingredient, which is known for being incredibly nourishing for the skin and providing the absolute best glide. It has an incredibly warm and nutty scent and can be used on your body every day after a bath or shower to achieve silky-soft skin. Best of all? It won’t stain your sheets!
Almond oil base provides great glide and skin nourishment
Primarily a massage oil
Will not stain sheets
Oil-based formula (check compatibility with condoms/toys)
It?s the best of both worlds with Wicked Hybrid. This super silky water-based personal lubricant is easy to clean, as well as toy and latex friendly, and blended in harmony with a rich bodied silicone. This fusion hybrid lube also includes seaweed extract for added glide and moisture – the perfect choice for all types...
$26.08
Why choose one when you can have the best of both worlds? Wicked Hybrid is a smart fusion that blends a super silky, easy-to-clean, water-based formula with a rich silicone component. This harmonious blend includes seaweed extract for extra glide and moisture, making it an excellent all-around choice for any kind of intimate play, and it's compatible with both toys and latex.
Hybrid formula (water and silicone) offers great longevity and glide
Clean up is slightly more involved than a pure water-based lube
Women's skin is delicate and sensitive and needs special care and attention, especially in intimate areas. pjur® WOMAN SILICONE is specifically designed to help women feel great and intensify what you feel with all of your senses. This personal lubricant and massage gel delivers extremely long-lasting lubrication and leaves your skin feeling silky smooth. Leaves...
$55.56
Pjur Woman Silicone is designed specifically for the delicate and sensitive nature of women's intimate skin. This top-notch personal lubricant delivers exceptionally long-lasting lubrication and leaves your skin feeling luxuriously silky smooth. It’s free from perfumes and preservatives, making it a gentle choice, and it can also double as a wonderful gel for an erotic massage.
Extremely long-lasting lubrication
Silicone-based (Incompatible with some silicone toys)
Leaves skin feeling silky soft
Very slippery on surfaces (Use caution in bath/shower)
Add a new level of cool to foreplay with Nipple Nibblers tingle balm. The kissable formula provides a tasty and delightfully tingling sensation for enhanced arousal. Cool burst. Sugar Free. Paraben Free. Gluten free. Vegan friendly. Not tested on animals. Apply a generous amount to nipples and gently rub onto skin prior to or during...
$9.36
Nipple Nibbler is a fun, kissable balm that’s all about enhancing foreplay! It provides a tasty and delightfully cool tingling sensation to ramp up arousal. This formula is completely sugar-free, paraben-free, gluten-free, and vegan-friendly. Simply apply a generous amount to the nipples and let the kissing, licking, and nibbling begin!
Get excited with this clit stimulator! The extra arousal and sensitivity that the gel provides makes your orgasms much more intense. The formula is designed to moisturize your intimate areas as well!
$16.09
Ready for a major boost? Excite C Spot Stimulating Gel is a clitoral stimulator focused on giving you extra arousal and sensitivity for much more intense orgasms! Beyond the stimulation, this formula is also designed to help moisturise your intimate areas. A little dab is all it takes to get excited.
Provides extra arousal and sensitivity
Designed as a stimulator, not a primary lubricant for intercourse
Sliquid Organics Sensation Lubricant — Water-Based Warming, Vegan, Menthol (4.2 oz) Orgasmically organic! Sliquid Organics Sensation is a water-based warming personal lubricant botanically infused with natural ingredients, including food-grade menthol. It is designed to heighten sensitivity and provide a deep pleasurable warming sensation during use. The formula comes in a 4.2 oz bottle and...
$17.20
Turn up the temperature with this luxurious warming lube from Mood Lubes! This thick formula is designed to build anticipation and excitement with a gentle warming sensation that heightens pleasure during partnered or solo play. Its thick, lasting glide ensures you stay slick for longer, and the discreet 4 oz pump bottle makes it a simple, mess-free addition to your nightstand.
Warming sensation builds pleasure and excitement
Thicker formula might be too heavy for some users
Thick, luxurious glide stays put for long-lasting play
Slippery Stuff® Liquid personal lubricant, enhances the pleasure of human contact. Slippery Stuff® is: water based, water soluble, safe, hygienic, odorless, non-staining, and long lasting.
$13.49
If you like your pleasure organic, Sliquid Organics Sensation is for you! This is a water-based, vegan warming lube that is botanically infused with natural ingredients, including food-grade menthol, to provide a deep, pleasurable warming sensation and heightened sensitivity. Like all Sliquid products, it's proudly Made in the USA, Glycerine Free, Paraben Free, and Hypoallergenic, making it a reliable choice for sensitive skin.
Natural menthol provides a warming sensation
Contains menthol (may be too stimulating for some)
simply® Timeless lube is uniquely formulated to address the specific needs of individuals during the perimenopausal and menopausal stages and beyond. Each formula contains ingredients that can help alleviate dryness and promote a more comfortable and satisfying intimate experience. Each lube contains supportive ingredients like aloe, olive leaf extract, squalane, and Vitamin E. These supportive...
$18.42
Sometimes, simple is best! Slippery Stuff Liquid is a classic, no-fuss personal lubricant that simply enhances the pleasure of human contact. It's water-based and water-soluble, making it safe, hygienic, odourless, non-staining, and reliable. It’s a long-lasting and straightforward choice that’s been trusted for years.
Water-based and water-soluble for easy cleanup
Very basic formula (no special sensations or ingredients)
Odorless and non-staining
Safe, hygienic, and long-lasting
Reliable and trusted classic
16. Wicked Sensual Care Simply Timeless Aqua Water-Based Lubricant
Earthly Body Waterslide Personal Lubricant – Carrageenan, 1 Oz Stay wet and confident with WaterSlide Personal Moisturizer from Earthly Body. This water-based lubricant is formulated with four simple ingredients, including water, to deliver a slick glide with minimal irritants—ideal for those with increased sensitivities. Key benefits include: Water-based for easy cleanup and...
$129.75
Simply Timeless Aqua is specially formulated to support comfort during and beyond the perimenopausal and menopausal stages, where dryness can be a bigger issue. This water-based lube is enriched with supportive ingredients like aloe, olive leaf extract, squalane, and Vitamin E to help alleviate dryness. It’s free from glycerin, parabens, and propylene glycol, and you can even use it as a daily vaginal moisturiser!
Specifically formulated for menopausal/perimenopausal dryness
Contains supportive ingredients (aloe, Vitamin E, etc.)
Glycerin-, paraben-, and propylene glycol-free
Can be used as a daily vaginal moisturizer
17. Earthly Body Waterslide Personal Lubricant Carrageenan
JO Warm and Buzzy Original Stimulant 0.34 oz Clitoral Stimulant JO Warm and Buzzy is a Maximum Strength clitoral stimulant designed to heighten sensual pleasure by enhancing sensation and sensitivity during foreplay and solo play. This warming and tingling formula delivers a pleasurable, buttery-smooth feel thanks to its silicone-based texture, helping you glide into...
$24.23
Stay slick and confident with WaterSlide, a minimalist lubricant from Earthly Body. This water-based formula is designed for maximum sensitivity, featuring only four simple ingredients, including carrageenan for a smooth, consistent glide. It’s an ideal choice for anyone with sensitivities who wants a slick formula with minimal irritants.
Only four ingredients to minimize irritation
Gentle for sensitive skin
Water-based for easy cleanup and toy compatibility
Ride Rocco Water Based Lubricant with Seaweed Extracts – 4 Oz Ride Rocco Water Based lube is a super-slick, water-based lubricant infused with natural seaweed extracts of Carrageenan, Nori, and Wakame. These seaweed components deliver an enhanced, extra wet feel for a slicker, longer-lasting experience than other water-based lubes. Whether you’re riding solo or...
$16.38
JO Warm and Buzzy is a Maximum Strength clitoral stimulant that’s all about intensifying pleasure! This formula delivers a warming and tingling sensation combined with a luxurious, velvety-smooth silicone texture, helping you focus on the fun. It’s water-resistant and stays put where you apply it. While it's a powerful stimulator, remember it's not tested for use with condoms.
Maximum Strength formula for intense sensation
Not tested for use with condoms
Warming and tingling effects
Primarily a stimulant, not a general-purpose lubricant
Ride BodyWorx Silk Hybrid Lubricant: Water-Based Silicone Blend Want the best of both worlds? Ride Silk Hybrid infuses 12% silicone and cream emollients into a water-based formula for a luxurious, long-lasting glide that cleans up easily. This hybrid lubricant delivers the silky smoothness of silicone with the convenience of water-based formulas. 12%...
$16.38
Ride Rocco is a super-slick, water-based lubricant designed to last longer than standard water-based formulas. It’s infused with natural seaweed extracts (Carrageenan, Nori, and Wakame) to give you an enhanced, extra-wet feel. It won’t get sticky or dry up quickly, and a little water reactivates the slipperiness! Cleanup is a breeze, making it great for any length of play, solo or shared.
Ultra-slick, water-based for a long-lasting feel
Natural ingredients may cause slight color/consistency variations
JO H2O Cherry Lubricant — Water-Based Personal Lubricant 1 Oz JO H2O Cherry Lubricant is part of the JO H2O Classic Flavors—the original water-based flavored lubricants from the JO brand. This cherry-flavored formula delivers a smooth, light glide with easy cleanup, making it ideal for intimate moments and everyday use. Cherry flavored...
$11.71
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Want that luxurious, long-lasting glide of silicone without the heavy feel and tricky cleanup? Ride Silk Hybrid is the answer! This hybrid formula perfectly blends a 12% silicone component and cream emollients into a water-based base. You get the silky smoothness of silicone, easy cleanup, and a formula that’s Glycerine-free, Paraben-free, and Hypoallergenic. It's truly the best of both worlds for a deeply indulgent experience.
Hybrid blend (water + 12% silicone) for a lasting, silky glide
Contains silicone (check compatibility with some toys)
Cream emollients for a rich, luxurious feel
Water-based for easy cleanup
Glycerine-free, Paraben-free, Hypoallergenic
Vaginal dryness is a common issue, but it doesn’t have to interfere with your intimate life. You can regain comfort and enhance your experiences by choosing the proper lubricant. Whether you opt for a water-based, silicone-based, or cream lubricant, the key is to select a product that suits your skin type and your needs. If you experience persistent dryness, consult your healthcare provider for additional recommendations and solutions.
By understanding the causes of vaginal dryness and how to choose the best lubricant, you can take control of your intimate health and feel confident in every moment.
FAQ
The best lubricant for vaginal dryness during sex is one that provides long-lasting moisture and reduces friction. Water-based lubricants, like Pjur Woman Nude Hypoallergenic Water-Based Lubricant, are highly recommended as they hydrate without irritating. Silicone-based options like PINK® Silicone Lubricant also provide extended moisture, making them ideal for longer sessions. Choosing a lubricant that matches your skin sensitivity and is free from harmful chemicals, such as glycerin and parabens, is crucial to prevent irritation or allergic reactions.
Several factors, including hormonal changes, medications, stress, and certain health conditions can cause vaginal dryness. Common triggers are menopause, pregnancy, breastfeeding, and taking hormonal birth control. Medications, such as antihistamines and antidepressants, can also lead to dryness. Stress and anxiety can affect your body’s ability to produce natural lubrication. If you’re experiencing vaginal dryness, it’s essential to speak with a healthcare provider to address the underlying cause and find the best solution.
Water-based lubricants are highly effective in relieving vaginal dryness because they mimic the natural moisture found in the body. They are easy to use and gentle on the skin, making them a safe option for women with sensitive areas. Water-based lubricants hydrate the vaginal tissues, reducing discomfort during sex or everyday activities. These lubricants are also easy to wash off and typically do not leave any sticky residue. For women experiencing intimate dryness, a high-quality water-based lubricant is one of the best solutions for enhancing comfort and pleasure.
Silicone lubricants, like Pjur Woman Soft Touch, are known for providing longer-lasting moisture compared to water-based options. While water-based lubricants may need reapplication during extended sessions, silicone lubricants stay slick for hours without drying out. Silicone lubricants are ideal for prolonged intimacy and for women who need continuous moisture. However, silicone-based lubricants may not be suitable for use with silicone sex toys, as they can damage the material. Both types have benefits, but it ultimately depends on your preference and the specific situation.
To prevent vaginal dryness, it’s essential to maintain good hydration, manage stress, and take care of your overall health. Staying hydrated helps your body maintain natural lubrication while managing stress through relaxation techniques can help with hormonal balance. If you're going through menopause or another phase of life that affects hormone levels, talk to a doctor about options to balance your hormones naturally. Additionally, using the proper lubricant regularly can prevent discomfort during intimacy. Using non-irritating products that support your skin's health and natural moisture production is important.
Yes, vaginal dryness can significantly impact sexual pleasure. It can cause discomfort, pain, and even micro-tears in the vaginal tissues, which can make intimacy unenjoyable. Vaginal dryness can result from hormonal fluctuations, medications, or other health issues, leading to reduced natural lubrication. The use of a high-quality lubricant can help ease the discomfort by providing moisture and reducing friction. With the proper lubricant, intimacy can become more enjoyable, restoring both comfort and pleasure.
Choosing the best lubricant for intimate dryness involves considering your skin type, sensitivities, and the desired experience. Hypoallergenic options like Pjur Woman Nude are ideal for women with sensitive skin, as they are free from irritating chemicals like parabens and glycerin. A silicone-based lubricant such as PINK® Silicone can be a better choice if you need long-lasting moisture. It’s also essential to look for a lubricant that is safe for use with condoms, mainly if you are relying on them for contraception. Select a product that meets your needs in terms of hydration, comfort, and duration.
In general, lubricants are safe to use for vaginal dryness, but some women may experience irritation or allergic reactions. It’s essential to choose a lubricant that is free of parabens, glycerin, and fragrances, as these ingredients can cause discomfort for some individuals. If you experience redness, itching, or other irritation, stop using the product and try a different one. To minimize risks, look for hypoallergenic products made with gentle, skin-friendly ingredients. If symptoms persist, it’s best to consult a healthcare professional.
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